i just need someone to talk to. its roughly 2months plus from the wedding date.
and out of sudden, i face so many difficulties to get everything done correctly. mom is busy with all the cucu(s), which she was getting another one same day as my birthday on 5th nov..as she also busy with all school works, and everything. its very hard for me to talk about my wedding with her. the conversation will only last up to 5 minutes, paling lama. and then they passed with other stories to talk about.
haihh...im the third one getting married in the family. mayb the whole family is well-trained with the wedding thingy already. :p
to be true, i suddenly feel tired. i know, its my wedding and i shouldnt feel that way. i need someone to talk to, definitely, MF will always be my mangsa.
MF is a secretive person, he knows me well enough compared to anyone else. whatever i told him, he will keep to himself. its not to my liking, when everyone knows whats my plan on this, on that.. like seriously, when i told A something, i dont expect to hear it back from B. that is me, im a very secretive person, to be honest..
pilih orang untuk bercerita, thats the only way to resolve everything.
oh, i also dislike bad-mouthing/komen tak membina!
sangatsss...
im kind of person. yang tak suka orang komen lebih-lebih. not because, aku kepala batu, or kepala lebih keras dari batu. it just i dont like it.
contoh situasi A,
i met the designer and i have everything ready in my mind. angan-angan tak sudah! he suggests ..this and that, yada..yada...improvise my idea.
this way, its acceptable for me.
contoh situasi B,
i bought a bag (sbg contoh) and the bag color is white. tetiba orang komen, kalau aku tak beli beg ni. kaler putih aku tak suka...
its u who dont like it. just keep it to urself. ok?
bila kena macam ni, most of the time aku tiada hati dah nak pakai barang aku beli tu. so its more or less aku termakan jugaklah dengan kata-kata tu, kan?
sila bezakan. bagi pendapat and mengomen!
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abaikan mereka dear ! saya pun penah rasa. masa tunang tema merah, dorg sibuk komplen. kadang2 terpk apsal la ramai sgt menyibuk. be strong yea !
same goes to me, darling. asyik terima komen tak membina. komen komen komen.. bukan tanak appreciate, abes dah komen macam nak down kan je apehal?! sabarje lah kan dengan 'kaum' macam tu.
Wedding date kita pon dekat-dekat je kan. I paham!
betul..kadangn2 terasa la ng kritikan terlalu membina..huhu..tak suke juge..maybe tgk dari segi penyampaian dorang tu..kl ckp leklok bleh terima..ni siap muke mencebik rasa nak pelangkung je..
sama lah kita. i pun tak suka if sesaper yg nak mengomen lebih2. tak suka, tak yah lah cakap apa2. bukan beli dengan duit dia pun. kuikuikui.... unless nak kena sharing kan, so logik kena terima pendapat mereka.
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