2-3 bulan sebelum

wahh, lately macam dah satu kegemaran aka hobi plak nak buat checklist ni. hehe...bukan ape...nanti after 1 month kahwin, tengok balik..bole teringat perasaan yang ada time ni. syiok ke..tak syiok ke..up ke..down ke...

1. dokumen kebenaran berkahwin.

-MF submitted to pejabat agama Seremban, exactly 3 months before majlis. will have to wait 3 hari berkerja to get surat kebenaran. now only i know, their procedure is much simpler, just get surat akuan bujang and isi borang then submit. tak payah bawak 2 orang saksi macam selangor ok.. :P
- my part will only start after MF handover everything.

2. outfit nikah, sanding, bertandang.

-nikah: first fitting 20 december. tak saba ok. hari-hari menghitung hari :P. baju melayu MF dah sebulan lebih Omar Ali peram, tak tau dah jadi jeruk kot sekarang... *larikkkkkk..*
i thot the deal is 3 weeks, entahlah. but surely end of december takde...siap aku pegi senseng lengan baju kat alamanda tu..
-sanding @ my home : first fitting mayb end of december. tidak mengharap setinggi gunung. serious..harap semuanya ok. kalau tak ok, aku dah tiada duit nak kasi ok. so enuffff..
-his side: sudah lama settle. hehe.. i managed to get kebaya yang i dream of.. read dis. the color to me is cream base and gold beads, tapi RKM cakap its peach and gold. whatever..as long as it is gold :p

3.pelamin
-nikah: its like aku berserah, entah. i dont knw what is the correct term for this. pendeknya, malas nak kisah. buat masa sekarang lah!. tungguu january..kalau masih tak kisah, sila piat telinga i... heeee~
-sanding: same vendor as baju. harus suruh akak tu sketch masa fitting nanti.
-bertandang: belum adaaaa!!! sedih...

4. barang hantaran & gubahan
- 99% done... wahhh, ayat nak kasi gempak aje. tinggal satu aje lagi barang untuk MF. tunggu january. kasi MF servey puas-puas dulu...pastu telan air liur puas2, sebab budget aku ciput aje! haha
-decorator: met her on last weekend. settle! very very reasonable price. wink... but the outcomes, tunggu dan lihat..

5. catering
-nikah: my aunt will be ketua chef. walawehh..its purely pahang foods ok.. i really cant wait for that. ops, both of my parents are from pahang, made me grew up with all pahang dishes yang sangat nyummmisss..me berdarah selangor but berperut pahang.
-sanding: amik semula caterer time along dulu..have no idea what is going on. huhu. already suruh mak to book, but both parents are currently busy.
-bertandang: tidak campur tangan. but i heard its settle...

6. doorgift *sila gelak guling-guling*
- nikah

• i dont what is the status of tempahan yasin aku... last emailed was, 80% siap, and suruh pilih cover...
• paper bag in progress
• tq tag dah design tapi belum print.

- sanding

• vendor found, bulan 1 baru order in bulk.
• 1000pcs goody bag bought.
  
• belum ikat ribbon to the goody bag, sebab belum ada TQ tag, but this round bukan salah aku.. aku buat utk nikah aje. hehe.
• favor VIP dah servey semalam. but belum decide.

7.lain-lain
- pre wedding preps in progress.
- kad kahwin dah tak tau apa cerita.
- vendor cake, found!
- rumah kami tak dapat kunci tahun ni. ok benci! *emo sat*



itu sahaja dulu. papai!

Checklist: Kurang dari EMPAT

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Kurang empat bulan dari Majlis kami,

1. Contact tempat berlangsung majlis, dan lengkapkan segala dokumen yg diperlukan.
- majlis nikah/sanding @ my home Shah Alam.
- bertandang @ Seremban
- dokumen kebenaran berkahwin in progress by MF.

2.Tentukan menu, dan anggaran kasar jumlah undangan.
- by parents.

3.Tempah semua keperluan, jurugambar,juruvideo, kek kahwin, dll.
- jurugambar: 30% deposit paid
- juruvideo: 50% deposit paid
- kek kahwin: kedai cake tu tutup masa kitorang pegi aritu, other option pulut kuning
- kad kahwin: paid rm50 depo, waiting for the design
- baju nikah: fitting by early november.
- baju sanding: bought kain dengan Kak Wa, by end Nov boleh fitting rasanya.
- pelamin mini: 30% deposit paid
- pelamin sanding: theme finalize, 0% paid :p
- pelamin bertandang: tak jumpa lagi....

4.Pilih jenis bunga tangan dan warna, jurusolek dan pedandan.
- bunga tangan, belum decide.
- makeup: Kak Ema kenduri belah aku(deposit paid). Kak Wa majlis belah h2b.


5. Memesan penghibur dan menyenaraikan lagu-lagu yang mengiringi majlis resepsi.
- kompang, dan silat mayb??
- lagu wajib Barakallah. lain-lain belum decide. but kalau boleh nak 100% lagu kahwin, or love song..bukan lagu tenda biru plissssss...atau sebarang jenis lagu 'kekasihku di sambar orang' hisshhhh

6. foto post wedding
- outdoor after wedding
- lokasi @ shah alam belum decide. act belum pernah survey.
- seremban? rasa cam nak pergi pantai ajeeee.hikssss

7. Rawatan diri dan kecantikan.
- punctually pergi facial once every month.
- scrub dah 1x dekat spa. but totally tak selesa, baik aku scrub sendiri dkt rumah.
- spa belum
- mary chia program: baru nak start balik weekend ni.
- gym: yes! konsistenly pergi..

OK dah! phenat......

9eptember, onwards ...

1. Upcoming MATTA Fair, pre-hornymoon and hornymoon package. - done
2. Hari Raya~ , baju raya bought. to pick up baju tempah for me, mak, and wan soon. new notes received from Intan and ready dimasukkan dalam sampul. Kuih raya ready to pick up! yeahh~ - done
3. Meet Kak Wawa, hantar design baju sanding. - done
4. Discuss design pelamin sanding. oh,fening..antara kehendak dan keperluan?- done
5. Pelamin mini still pending reply vendor, dah tak tau cam mana nk force dia, should i look for some other vendor?-to pay depo
6. Baju nikah- 2nd fitting, and then proceed with veil and beading, in order/not in order but can be fixed/a total disaster?
7. Survey, and survey and survey doorgift! aiyarkkk..need to decide already.
8. Centrepiece? hurmm... cyrstal clear vase required. shop indentified!
9. Meet hantaran decorator, oh ho.. have decided not do it all by myself?

its 5 MONTHS + 2 WEEKS + 2 DAYS!

sudah panas punggung berehat, sila percepatkan langkah....

Wedding Checklist

in blue: latest update

slowly will update. just want us to be on track of our own wedding. hehe

found this on the net! it might be helpful for us.

but need to add in and remove here and there, which is applicable to Malay Muslim wedding concept.


My wedding approach is simple, spend only within the budget.

1. nikah, sanding & bertandang date
- confirmed

2. kursus kahwin & legal docs
- kursus: done
- hiv test:
- borang:

3. venue
- nikah & sanding : home
- bertandang : home

4. catering & canopy
- shah alam : on survey
- bertandang : his family

5. pelamin & decor
- shah alam :
nikah:
sanding:booked. to meet her somewhere in October.
- bertandang : on survey, his family

6. photographer
- nikah & reception : booked, 30% paid
- bertandang : booked
- pre-wedding : on own.
- post-wedding : shutterspeak's contest prize.

7. videographer
- nikah & sanding : booked, to pay another 1k before end of july.
- bertandang : none.

8. wedding outfit
- nikah :
(her)first fitting on 30 july. alteration needed.second fitting after raya
(him)sampin and kain bought
Tudung nikah & veil on survey
- sanding : design on survey
- bertandang : 50% paid to the vendor. confirm Kebaya.

9. makeup
- nikah & sanding : booked
- bertandang : booked
- inai : no idea :P

10. favors
- nikah : on survey
- sanding :
all guest : on survey
rombongan family : on survey
maintable : on survey

- bertandang :
all guest : his family
vips : his family
maintable : his family

11. bunga pahar
- sanding :
- bertandang :

12. hantaran
- for him : 1/9 completed
- for her : 2/7 completed
- decorator :
- bracelet tunang: done

13. rings
- his : to collect on August done, name engraved
- hers : done. to engrave name done, name engraved

14. invitation card
- DIY in progress

15. cake
- sanding :
- bertandang :under caterer

16. tok kadi
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17. handbouquet
- nikah :
- sanding :
- bertandang :

18. guest list
- half way done.hehe

19. ceremony, entertainment & kompang
- shah alam : only kompang.
- bertandang :
- cd of favourite songs :

20. pengapit
- sanding :
- bertandang :

21. dresses for family
- shah alam :
- bertandang :

22. wedding heels
- nikah & sanding & bertandang :

23. event itinerary
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24. wedding props
- bungga manggar

25. spa treatment
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26. facial treatment
- on going

27. honeymoon plan
- ticket booked

28. bilik pengantin
-cadar bought
-others on survey.
-deco:

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